Forgiveness should start with yourself, which is often the hardest thing to do and then it may be possible for you to forgive everyone around you. We all have 'what ifs' but I believe that everyone makes their decisions based on their current realities and only in hindsight can other choices be seen. Holding on to these negative emotions is very destructive and makes it impossible for you to get on with your life. Remember that everyone is on their chosen life path and may have different agendas to you.
Archangel Zadkiel is the Angel associated with this word and you can call on his silver violet flame to transmute these feelings. Imagine a circle of these flames and place the people, situations or emotions that need forgiving into the centre. This cannot harm you or the people you love but will burn away the negative emotions, helping you to forgive.
The colour violet is a spiritual master and bring enlightenment, clarity and vision. This colour is about spiritual growth and works with the highest levels of thought without using the physical senses.
Bring this colour into your life with purple foods such as aubergine, red cabbage, broccoli, figs and plums to help you to face conflicts in your life. Using lavender and purple flowers and plants, along with amethyst will comfort you and protect you.
The Archangel associated with this word is Zadkiel and you can call on his silver violet flame to purify body, mind and soul, to heal emotions and negative beliefs. This will help you to move on with your life, bringing forgiveness for yourself and others.